torsdag 15. september 2011

Humon's words of wisdom

I just had to copy Humon's Journal to my own, it is so true!

"I was at a party the other day where a guy slapped a girl's butt and she freaked out, yelled at him and pushed him hard into a wall. Afterwards the guy asked his friends, "What the hell? Why did she freak out like that? I didn't even hit her that hard. Girls are so uptight"

While she did overreact a bit (I could hear the slap from where I stood, so it properly hurt more than he thought), I've heard this kind of comment before. "Why are women so boring? Why do they freak out just because you touch their ass/breasts? If a woman grabbed my ass I wouldn't react like that"

I just want to give a quick explanation for those guys who has yet to figure it out. Men are stronger physically than woman, there's no way to get around it, and from the day we were born women are taught that men can't be trusted. Well, except for our dads, and possibly our brothers, but we shouldn't trust your creepy uncle too much.
"Don't talk to strangers" really means "Don't talk to strange men", and we tell women not to get raped but not men that they shouldn't rape. "I'm a man, I can't help myself" is often heard when his girlfriend complains about him getting a bit too close to other girls. "Men are animals that can't control themselves. They are all dangerous. Never let a man be alone with someone else's child, he will surely rape it, and the same goes for you, young woman. All men are sexual offenders just waiting to get a chance"

That is very harshly said of course, but that's the core of what women are told throughout their lives, even by their own fathers. And even though we don't run away in horror as soon as we see a guy, for a long time before we get to know him it's somewhere in the back of our heads that he's dangerous. Studies have shown that even most men's biggest fear is other men (Getting beat up).

So if you're a guy, imagine that a guy much bigger and stronger then you grabbed your ass and started flirting with you. That's why girls freak out over a slap on the butt."

She wrote it on DA: http://humon.deviantart.com/journal/44134053/

This is so true, I am terrefyed of men/guys flirting whit me, I am generaly afraid of men... And so many just think abaut looks, and so many are unfathefull.... I am discusted over how unserius guys can be.

What am I looking for in a man? : Kind, Sensetive, Positive, Funny, Caring, Helpfull... Yes, I want a Prince chraming :P

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